Ask Jacki

I was wondering if you can help direct me to specific candles, oils, incense, etc @ Coventry Creations for my issue. I just got a new job after being unemployed for about 3 months. My husband & I are trying to save money for a place. We want to move into a good neighborhood so desperately. To top it off, we have family drama which is causing problems since we live with family at the time. What products do you recommend for my situation? I was thinking Blessed Herbals dreams come true, but not sure and is why I wanted expert advice from the experts

OH also, I burned the Ace of Pentacles and Star candle the week I got my interviews and landed the job. Before that I burned a mix of Sun, VanVan, and others from CC.

I appreciate your help sooooo much,

Loyal Listener

Jacki's Answer

Let's look at this in the whole picture - you are bettering your life and going for the next step in your personal evolution.

Using Storm Cestavani’s R.E.M. method here are a few candle choices:

"R" - Remove. You need to remove the family drama - that does not always mean removing the people - just the drama. Now if the people insist on keeping the drama, then they have to go too. Before you light any candle, you need to be willing to let the drama go yourselves. Sometimes that family drama gives you a purpose and a boost to your ego. Candles for this are; Witches Brew Eye of Newt, Tarot Tools Dispel Evil, Wicked Witch Mojo Tornado, and World Magic Kyphi

"E" - Energize. What is it that needs to be energized and enhanced? - right now your self esteem and your confidence need that attention. You have a new job and are looking to make a lot of changes that will take you out of our comfort zone. When you are filled with Confidence and energy, you can accomplish anything. Candles for this are; Blessed Herbal Stability candle, Tarot Magic Emperor candle, Tarot Magic High Priestess Candle, Witches Brew original candle, World Magic Brigit candle, and Affirmation Success candle.

"M" - Manifest. You are manifesting a new home. You understand that it will take time to save the money and are willing to commit to it. What you need to manifest is the will, resolve and focus to make this happen. Candles for this; Blessed Herbal Happy Home, Motor City Hoo Doo Road Opener, Tarot Magic Magician or Hanged Man, Wicked Witch Mojo Gimmie Gumption

Light the candles one by one and you go through this process. This is something that is transforming you and the way you handle life.

When you light the Remove candle - ask yourself why you partake in the family drama. Think about the family drama, your part in it and then as a memory. If you need support in this - draw a tarot card as you ask yourself "Why". Let that candle burn out before you take the next step.

When you light the Energize candle, Look for actions that you take and the supportive comments around you that build your confidence. Remind yourself every day how strong and amazing you are. If you need support - Ask the question, "What strengths am I using today to better my life" Then draw a tarot card if you need help answering that. Let that candle burn out before you light another.

When you light the Manifest candle, start writing out the list of the perfect home for yourself and how much money you will be saving every week to get it. If you get stuck, ask yourself, what am I doing today to manifest my dream - Draw a tarot card if you need a little support and help.

After all the candles have burnt down, continue the daily work you have been doing, asking yourself questions and staying committed to your goal. You only have to releat the REM process with candles How deep you go in this transformation will determine how fast this change happens.

I hope this helps

Jacki